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Daudu waliat's avatar

Thiss stirred something in me🥺thank you precious ❤️🥰

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The Becoming Journal's avatar

I’m so glad it did, thank you for reading❤️

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April Dokubo's avatar

Live louder 💃💃💃

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The Becoming Journal's avatar

Yup

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Undistorted, Radical Clarity's avatar

Your clarity on this lands. The real relief isn’t “being loud” or “being soft.” It’s no longer adjusting the dial to match someone else’s comfort threshold. When self-expression stops being a negotiation—when you don’t need an audience to validate the volume—that’s the point where identity finally feels like home.

Keep expanding. Every time a woman takes up her exact shape, it recalibrates what the rest of us consider possible.

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